Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Choosing a tubal reversal surgeon

The most frequently asked question I receive involves choosing a tubal reversal surgeon. We know what a leap of faith it takes for a woman to travel across the country for surgery, so it is important to be well-informed as you make your decision.

Dr. Berger is the only physician in the country with a practice that is specifically limited to tubal reversal surgery. That is the only procedure we perform here with Dr. Berger performing four reversals each day, five days a week. We have a high staff/patient ratio with one or two nurses devoted specifically to your care while you are here. All of our nurses have advanced certification in cardiac life support (ACLS) and our anesthesiologists are MD's with board certification in anesthesia. The anesthesiologists are employees here and not anesthesia staff from another hospital or anesthesia service. So everyone here has expertise in caring for and performing reversal surgery. While you are here, you will only be with other women and couples who are here specifically for the same purpose.

We keep very detailed data and statistics on each of our patients (age, tube length, medical history, tube of tubal ligation, pregnancy history, etc.). This is obtained by daily contact with our patients to ensure we have accurate information regarding their surgery and their outcome. To the best of my knowledge, Dr. Berger is the only doctor with published data regarding outcomes following reversal surgery. On the Internet, claims about tubal reversal pregnancy rates are often made without supporting information or documentation - such as a description of the patient population, study method, and follow-up interval. Most Internet sites about tubal reversal do not provide any factual data at all. Any doctor may say that his patients have a particular success rate, but supporting the claim with actual data involves considerable effort. Performing a follow-up study such as this one requires keeping an accurate record of patients and their findings, as well as maintaining ongoing patient contact to determine the outcomes of treatment. That is the only way a doctor can actually know what the pregnancy and outcome statistics are for his patients. Without this detailed type of information, the accuracy of any claim of success rates should be questioned.

At Chapel Hill Tubal Reversal Center, nurses enter information into an electronic patient database at the patient's registration, the surgical procedure, and from regular post-operative communications with our staff. If we have not heard from patients after their recovery from surgery, our nurses contact them at 6 and 12-month intervals. We know of no other doctor, hospital, or clinic that maintains such ongoing patient follow-up records after tubal reversal surgeries. I believe Dr. Berger's commitment to providing accurate, up-to-date data is reflected in the fact that he requires this time-consuming but important procedure to be followed so that valid information can be obtained. Each year we publish the results of our follow-up study, reflecting surgical and pregnancy outcomes. This is the most comprehensive study done to date of tubal reversal surgery and its resulting outcomes, showing that for the majority of women who have undergone a tubal ligation procedure and decide later they would like to have more children, tubal reversal surgery is a better option than in vitro fertilization (IVF).

I hope this information is helpful. If I can answer other questions or assist you in any way, please let me know. Dr. Berger is able to repair the tubes in 98% of cases, including those where the tubes have been cut and burned.

Sincerely,

Julia Smith, RN, ALNC
Nurse Administrator
Chapel Hill Tubal Reversal Center
T: 919-656-8204 F: 870-934-9211

Friday, October 5, 2007

Tubal Reversal Procedure Scheduling

Scheduled For Tubal Reversal Procedure In Three Weeks

Having chosen Dr. Gary Berger as her tubal reversal doctor, a member of the Chapel Hill Tubal Reversal Center Message Board seeks support from other members and shares her feelings of nervousness. Patients and staff provide input on what to expect before and after a tubal reversal procedure and share their own stories of success following surgery with Dr. Berger.


Posted by Steffp (Member # 11579) October 04, 2007 11:14 AM:

I committed to the TR Procedure two days ago and it is happening in 3 weeks.. I am a nervous reck!! I am 29 and getting married on Oct 20th. This is the honeymoon. I hope thinks go good but I guess I can use someone who understands. Can anyone help?


Posted by wweigand (Member # 11323) October 04, 2007 11:27 AM:

Steff, everything will be fine! You will be sore for your honeymoon tho. But hopefully well worth it. Good luck and long, healthy tubes!!! Dont be nervous. I was also a nervous wreck but the staff at CH are WONDERFUL!! They really make you feel welcome. So much so, that I told my husband, I want to move to NC. I said if everyone is as nice as the staff at CH, I would love to move down there. Wendy [Smile]


Posted by Tanya from VA (Member # 9507) October 04, 2007 11:36 AM:

Welcome to CH and hopefully the best life-changing experience you will have. This is a great place for support and you will find everyone here really understands. [Smile]

Try to relax - the surgury isn't very hard as far as recovery. Like Wendy said - your going to be sore for several days but it's very managable and you will feel better everyday. The CH staff is just awesome and they will answer your questions and assist in anyway they can.

The journey ttc can be filled with ups and downs. Try to pick up a copy of Taking Charge of Your Fertility and do some reading. Most ladies here have never had any issues ttc but after surgury many find ourselves stuggling for longer than we expected. This book is just PACKED with useful information - even if you get a BFP the next month you won't be sorry you picked it up.

Good luck to you! Crossing my fingers for long healthy tubes and a quick BFP for you!! [Smile]

Tanya
TR 9-7-06
edd 5-21-08


Posted by Steffp (Member # 11579) October 04, 2007 11:48 AM:

I just regret my past decision so much that I hope this is a success. I just don't want the surgery to be in vain.. They said everything looks positive. Can I really believe them and start hoping this will actually happen?


Posted by Lori RN (Member # 10610) October 04, 2007 11:57 AM:

Steffp,

We are glad you made the decision to come see Dr. Berger. Here is a website link on What to expect the Day of Surgery. I look forward to meeting you.

Lori RN

[CHTRC]


Posted by Luckypj's (Member # 9974) October 04, 2007 12:07 PM:

Steff,

You are in great hands with Dr. Berger and his staff! You are still young so don't worry and enjoy your new marriage (Congratulations by the way!) and your TTC'ing!

Welcome to the message board. There is so much support and friendship here. I don't know what I would do without it!


Posted by Tanya from VA (Member # 9507) October 04, 2007 12:09 PM:

Steff - I remember feeling the same way but this is going to happen! It feels surreal right now but once you get there and meet the nurses, staff and have your consult with Dr.Berger it won't feel like a dream. With all luck - your life will start a new path that day. You will leave the consult feeling anxious but be assured your in good hands. The nurses in the surgical unit are just AWESOME!! [Smile]

You may not get a quick pregnancy - it may take a few or many months - there may be bumps along the way and life offers no guarentees but be assured he has changed many lives - including mine. [Smile] I'm sure more ladies will jump in and tell you their stories.

Best of luck to you!


Posted by Steffp (Member # 11579) October 04, 2007 12:17 PM:

Thank you so much!! I really hope that we will be celebrating a bfp in the upcoming months. I want to be cautiously optimistic.. But it is hard.. I really want a baby


Posted by Eric'sGirl (Member # 10652) October 04, 2007 01:32 PM:

I got married oct 21st of last year... will be by Dr. B on the 18th... anniversary trip! for my TR procedure. You are in the best hands possible! Best of luck to you!

What day is your surgery? there is a bunch of us on "The Waiting Room" thread (currently on Part 25) - come join us... I will add you to the list of us waiting!

Chrissy


Posted by Steffp (Member # 11579) October 04, 2007 01:41 PM:

Thank you so very much..Good luck to you all


Posted by Jan, RN (Member # 10035) October 04, 2007 02:56 PM:

You are understandably excited and anxious about the upcoming procedure. Anxiety is often due to not knowing- the unknown. Reading on the website, especially what to expect, as Lori suggested might help relieve some anxiety. Please feel free to call with questions. Help us know how we can be helpful to you.
[CHTRC]

Friday, September 28, 2007

Tubal Reversal Procedure Talking Points

The page Tubal Reversal Procedure Talking Points discusses various issues regarding tubal reversal microsurgery, such as the use of loupes vs microscope, choice of suture material for the fallopian tubes, and the advantages of using a tubal stent. Although some doctors may have different opinions about how tubal reversal surgery is best performed, there is one way to know for certain what works the best and that is by documenting the pregnancy and birth rates after the reversal surgery. Dr. Berger is the only tubal reversal doctor who documents and publishes actual pregnancy and birth statistics based on long term patient follow-up.

Question : How can I know what techniques work best for tubal reversal procedures?

Answer : Some doctors may have different opinions about how tubal reversal surgery is best performed. There is only one way to know what works the best and that is by documenting the pregnancy and birth rates after the reversal surgery. This requires long term patient follow-up. Dr. Berger follows-up with all of his patients, records the outcomes of every reversal procedure, and publishes documented statistics about pregnancy after tubal reversal as well as weekly pregnancy reports for his patients. Chapel Hill Tubal Reversal Center provides complete and accurate information about the success of tubal reversal.

More Questions and Answers about Tubal Reversal Procedure

Saturday, September 8, 2007

North Carolina Facility Specializes in Tubal Reversal Surgery

(CHAPEL HILL, NC) - Dr. Gary S. Berger, M.D., director of Chapel Hill Tubal Reversal Center, has established the only surgical practice in the country dedicated exclusively to performing tubal ligation reversal surgery. Dr. Berger, one of the pioneers of tubal reversal surgery, is a reproductive surgeon who has spent more than 30 years specializing in outpatient tubal reversal surgery.

Widely recognized as the tubal reversal doctor with the most experience with the tubal reversal procedure, Dr. Berger's patients come from across the United States and abroad to have their fertility restored with his one hour, outpatient, low cost tubal reversal procedure. The microsurgery techniques Dr. Berger pioneered reduce tissue injury, blood loss, post-operative pain, the risk of infection, and recovery time.

Dr. Berger has created a unique environment for women who come to Chapel Hill Tubal Reversal Center. Since the facility is dedicated to caring for tubal reversal patients only, patients enjoy a high nurse-to-patient ratio with one or two nurses devoted specifically to caring for each patient. All of the nurses are RNs and have advanced certification in cardiac life support (ACLS) and the anesthesiologists are medical doctors (MD's) with board certification in anesthesia. The other women and couples in the facility are there specifically for the same purpose - tubal reversal procedures.

Although tubal reversal may not be right for everyone, a comprehensive study conducted by Chapel Hill Tubal Reversal Center in 2006 concluded that Dr. Berger is able to repair the fallopian tubes in 98% of women who have come for surgery and over two-thirds of his patients become pregnant within 10 months following surgery. The study report includes 4,025 tubal reversal procedures performed by Dr. Berger between January 2001 and December 2005. It is the largest and most definitive study in existence that provides information on the outcome of tubal reversal surgery.

At the conclusion of the study interval, 69 percent of the women in Dr. Berger's study had reported pregnancies. The pregnancy rate ranged from 82 percent for women under 30 years of age to 41 percent for women 40 years of age and older. The highest pregnancy rate (87 percent) was among women age under 30 after reversal of a previous ring or clip method of sterilization.

"Many people, including doctors, mistakenly believe that tubal ligation surgery is a permanent method of birth control," states Dr. Berger. Tubal reversal surgery - a one-hour outpatient procedure - rejoins the separated segments of fallopian tube so that eggs can become fertilized and travel down the tubes to the uterus, allowing pregnancy to occur naturally."

Julia Smith, RN
(919) 656-8204

Tuesday, August 21, 2007

Testimonials After Tubal Reversal Procedures from Dr. Berger's Patients

"I had my tubal reversal surgery by Dr. Berger in September, 2002. I have had 2 sons after my tubal reveral so far and have just found out I am expecting another baby in April." Misty R.

"Our Berger baby girl arrived just 10 short months after having the reversal procedure." Geni W.

"I want to announce the arrival of our new baby girl. We are so happy we traveled to Chapel Hill Tubal Reversal Center have the reversal done. I had the tubal reversal procedure performed September 21, 2006 and we found out we were pregnant the day after Thanksgiving." Elizabeth S.

"Kate just turned one. Turns out we got her an extra special present! Positive HPT today...we are THRILLED." Steph C.

"It will never be lost on me what miracles these little TR boys are. Thank you, Dr. Berger and staff for helping to make our dreams come true." Renee and Jack L.

"We are so grateful to Chapel Hill Tubal Reversal Center for the great work you do to allow families like ours to follow their hearts and bring a new life into their homes." Jennifer McN.

"My son Dylan is a Dr. Berger miracle. I had my tubal reversal surgery in January of 2006 and Dylan was born on January 22nd, 2007." Maria M.

"My tubal reversal baby boy is here thanks to the wonderful Dr. Berger and staff at Chapel Hill Tubal Reversal Center." Andrea P.

"I got pregnant 2 months after my tubal reversal. Thank you Dr. Berger - I had a great pregnancy, full term, and fast delivery." Phoebe R.

"Our 3 year old tubal reversal daughter, Hally, has changed our lives and I still appreciate everything Dr. Berger did to bring so much joy into our lives." Peggy L.

"I had my baby 4 days after my Tubal Reversal Anniversary. Thank you, Dr. Berger - without you we wouldn't have our little miracle! " Dawn T.

"Kiaira is such a happy baby. Dr. Berger made our dreams come true with his tubal reversal procedure." Rosemary and Manuel M.

"We now have a new son thanks to the awesome skill of Dr. Gary Berger, the best tubal reversal doctor." Dana and Phillip A.

"We just wanted to say thank you, Dr. Berger and to all of the staff, for making our dream of having a family come true! We just added our second tubal reversal Berger Baby to our family only 16 months after our first Berger Baby." Scott and Kim H.

"Our new family addition arrived after tubal reversal surgery performed by Dr. Berger. I am a new mom again at 41." Tim and Amy F.

"Another miracle tubal reversal Berger Baby is born. Jayden is my husband's first child and to see the look on his face was priceless. Thank you all for this miraculous gift." JoAnn and Travis R.

"In October we will be delivering our 2nd Berger baby, then our family will be complete. We couldn't be more happy with our decision to take the leap and go see Dr. Berger for our TR surgery." Sheila P.

"My son is proof that tubal reversal works. My Berger Baby just turned one year of age - we are truly blessed thanks to you, Dr. Berger." Crystal W.

"We are so happy to report the arrival of our baby boy. We thank Dr. Berger and his wonderful staff for helping us realize the dream of having our fourth child." Misti D.

"Dr. Berger helped us create our miracle through tubal reversal surgery. He made our family so happy and complete." Angela P.

"Thank you, Dr. Berger, for giving us this miracle of life. I want to thank you for doing a wonderful job letting us have something so beautiful between Rodger and me." Heidi F.

Wednesday, August 8, 2007

Save Money For Tubal Reversal Surgery

Now You Can Save Money For Tubal Reversal Surgery

Dr. Berger's patients provide support and ideas for those saving funds for surgery.

The Chapel Hill Tubal Reversal Center Message Board is a great place to find support and answers to your tubal reversal questions. Many of the posts involve finances and ways to save money toward the reversal surgery fee.

This is topic Ways to Save for TR in forum Preparing for Tubal Reversal at Tubal Reversal Message Board.

To visit this topic, use this URL:
http://www.tubal-reversal.net/ubb/ultimatebb.php/topic/3/3996.html

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Posted by berta8133 (Member # 11188) on August 05, 2007 02:05 PM:

Hello sisters!!

Hi...have read several posts on this subject and sisters wondering what corners to cut...etc etc... here are some ideas but a few may be something everyone needs to give up:

1. Cut cable television down to basic minimum (depending on your service now..could be a savings of 30+ a month.

2. Review your cell phone package...if youre always below your minutes- considering reducing the package you have now....

3. If you have cell phone that includes long distance...cancel long distance service (if u pay for it) on your home phone...or better yet, cancel your service to the home phone all together.

4. Cut down on eating out...(huge savings here)

5. If family knows about TR, can ask everyone for contributions for a garage sale..(we did this when we were going to buy a car for my DD, the whole family pitched in and we made $800 in one day to use towards the car).

6. We cut down on our electric bill every month by changing all the light bulbs to the energy efficient ones...(just need to deduct prior bill with new bill and that would be the amount to put in piggy)

7. Depending how often you run dishwasher- conserve on the electric it uses and wash dishes by hand (this would go along with the light bulbs and energy used-prior month)

8. buy items in bulk (in long run it it cheaper)

9. Depending on how many times you get your hair done (try stretching the time in between appts, so not as many times a year)

10. If DS's / DH's go to the barber...if they just get a buzz cut....get clippers and do yourself-- a buzz cut anyone can do..and long run...savings!!!

11. If you have nails done..either quit all together or as with hair - stretch time in between (then put that money that you would have used in piggy including tip)

12. If you or hubby stop and get coffee or etc on way to work...STOP..make coffee at home...then put the amount you would normally spend a week in the baby fund.

13. If you buy the local newspaper, check to see if available online..ITS FREE! Then cancel your 'paper' subscription.

14. Magazine subscriptions...do you really need those?? If not a necessity..cancel it.

The final one.... LONG ago..I read this in a newspaper and it just boggled my mind. There was a story about a man and woman when they married each time they BD'd the wife would put so much $$ in a jar...she never told her husband, and one day years into their marriage he came home from work-he had lost his job and didn't know what they were going to.... well the wife said not to worry and she went got the money that she had put aside..if i remember the story correctly she had saved thousands...enough for them not worry...so on that avenue.....if you chose to do this... you could do ever how much you wanted..... it may seem to some 'wrong' to do this...but if working towards something...why not work together either you or your hubby/partner could contribute to the baby fund??? I dunno..... After reading this in the paper, I actually YEARS ago did this.....and within 6 months we had saved....$1200!!!!!!!!

I'm sure there are many many other ways to cut corners and save the $$ just takes persistent, willpower and the determination to do it. Just need to look at every aspect of where money goes,and then ask this question to yourself-- Need versus Want. If you dont NEED it..cancel it..you can do without it.

To all the sisters saving for TR..... Good luck!!

Berta
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Posted by juliea (Member # 11218) on August 05, 2007 02:23 PM:

Berta,You have a lot of great ideas I think I am going to go through my bills right now. Some of these are even great for people who are not even saving for TR.
I got some very expences clothes from my niece. They had been sitting in the trunk of her car. I told my friend about them and she is going to give me $20 for them. A little here and a little there.
I also am going to have my W-2 changed to more dependents. And I am going to take the little I have going into a savings account and have it go into my flex account, because flex account money doesn't get taxed.
and I made $50 at my yard sale and $50 from collecting can. Cans go for 70 cents a pound here does any one know how much they go for in other areas? GOOD LUCK TO ALL Julie
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Posted by berta8133 (Member # 11188) on August 05, 2007 02:28 PM:

Julie.... on the idea of the cans...can also ask family members, (if they just toss or recycle to town or whatever)...why not just save and you pick them up and cash them in. W-2's and Flex plan are good ways too... Good luck to you!!!
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Posted by ANANICKY07 (Member # 11330) on August 06, 2007 01:18 PM:

GOOD AFTERNOON LADIES ... It may sound funny but we thought of an easy way to save money. My sister is a plastic welder. I had her make me a box that is welded shut with a little slit at the top. I can not open it unless I break it. Every Friday I go to my moms and everyone puts in their extra change or a donation to my baby fund. My sister put in a $100 bill this morning. So I am very pleased. My husband and I will be putting in $500 a month in this box along with our tax return and by the time March 08 rolls around we will be ready to schedule my TR. [Smile] [Big Grin] [Razz]
GOOD LUCK !!
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Posted by lvtobered (Member # 10886) on August 06, 2007 03:29 PM:

Ananicky07, You are very lucky to have such a supportive family, good for you!
Michelle
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Posted by ANANICKY07 (Member # 11330) on August 06, 2007 04:23 PM:

Thanks... I have gone through alot of ups and downs in my lifetime and my family has always been there to support me mentally and for the most part finacially as well .. I cant wait to schedule my TR. I wish all u ladies the best of luck.. Anyone trying to schedule for Feb/March 08. Thank you all for welcoming me in on the board. Take care !!
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Posted by juliea (Member # 11218) on August 06, 2007 06:58 PM:

I am hoping for May. I am a teacher and that would give me time to recover. It I can get the money together.
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Posted by Rhonda Brown, RN (Member # 9485) on August 06, 2007 07:42 PM:

Ladies,
What wonderful ideas. It is great that you have a support system here on the board. I look forward to meeting each and everyone of you as I know you will reach your goal. Please let me know if you have any questions or if I can assist you in anyway.
Rhonda

Tuesday, July 31, 2007

I Have Lymphedema After Tubal Ligation

This is topic My doctor thinks I have Lymphedema after TL in forum New Message Board Members at Tubal Reversal Message Board.

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http://www.tubal-reversal.net/ubb/ultimatebb.php/topic/6/2675.html
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Posted by cutiebabiesbyr (Member # 11190) on July 20, 2007 10:10 AM:
I don't know what happened when they did this tubal, but I have sooo many problems since then, my biggest problem is my leg swells now and doesn't stop, I saw that someone else got Lymphedema after they had their TL. I need some support here and definitely feel like I'm losing my mind here [Frown] I don't know if a TR will help this, I read that some girls on here had problems with swelling and one girl on here had Lymphadma after a TL too.
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Posted by Hospicegurl (Member # 10548) on July 20, 2007 08:31 PM:
Ladies please try to help her out. I am bumping because you can read through the lines and see the pain.
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Posted by jarz (Member # 9286) on July 20, 2007 09:14 PM:
I wish I could help, but I have never heard of this. I had issues with TL, fatigue, facial hair, lack of libido, terrible AF's, mood swings and all went back to normal after TR. I hope you do find the help you need and Hospicegurl you are a very kind person. Jo
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Posted by cutiebabiesbyr (Member # 11190) on July 20, 2007 10:28 PM:
Hospicegurl, Thank you SOO much, you're way too sweet! I have to go to another doctor to confirm if I have this still, getting really scared in away. It gives me hope that some girls are getting relief from swelling of their legs after their TR, guess I'm going to have to get it done and pray it works. (((HUGS))) If anyone has any info, I would love to hear from you. [Smile]
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Posted by leo79 (Member # 11266) on July 25, 2007 05:13 PM:
Cutiebabiesbyr you are not alone, I was going through the same thing my feet, hand and face were constantly swelling and I had terrible abdominal pains. I went to my GYN and she did a sonogram and told me everything was normal and that I should take motrin for my pain. Now you know your own body and I knew there was something wrong. My HB was tired of seeing me like that and one day he just said you are going for the TR and I did. I had my Tr on 7/05/07 and I know this might be too soon by so far so good. I feel great the swelling is gone my pains are gone and I feel great. The surgery was fast and easy and Dr. Berger and his staff are wonderful. It is so unfair that Dr's don't tell you all the bad thing that could happen with TL. I hope this helps and keep us posted on your condition good luck. Leo [Smile]
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Posted by Rhonda Brown, RN (Member # 9485) on July 25, 2007 07:50 PM:
Dear cutiebabiesbyr, I am so sorry that you are having to go through this swelling. As you can see there have been patients that have experienced some similar symptoms. I know that you will find great support here. We have lots of patients that come for symptoms that they began having once they had their TL (PTLS). Most of our patients that come for PTLS report an improvement/absence of the symptoms after the surgery. I would be more than happy to answer any questions that you may have. You can either call me at 919-968-4656 or by email: RhondaB@tubal-reversal.net I look forward to hearing from you. Rhonda [CHTRC]
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Posted by randi (Member # 10710) on July 25, 2007 09:07 PM:
You are definatly not alone, im sti waitinto get my TR, and I have posted before about my symptns. I went from having a 5 or 6 day AF with only 1-2 heavy days, to now 9-12 days, all heavy, my iron is shot, i think the highes ive had on iron was 8, i used to wrap myself in a little cacoon when I slept, now I only use a sheet and cover just my mid section because im having hot flashes, just horrid, I even went in for a full blood work up and pap just to see if there was anything funny and everything came back normal except my iron. At first my husband thought i only wanted the TR for another baby, we got into a huge arguement that i wasnt just saying this stuff was happening, so I made him come to the bathroom with me during AF, and he was horrified and almost wanted to take me to hospital because he realized that there was way to much blood. I hope I can get this done soon and I hope it helps you and your symptoms, Im only 26 , I feel 90 and the thought of feeling this bad for the next 25-30 yrs until I go through the change makes me cry and also makes me more upset because I was not warned that my body may change, I was told that it would not affect my body at all, i would not notice any change and they were wrong. sorry this is so long, i just needed to vent. good luck to you
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Posted by Holden (Member # 11265) on July 25, 2007 09:27 PM:
Hey Girls: This is amazing! I thought that for the past 9 years I have just had MAJOR water retention. I do not salt anything and try to stay away from foods that contain alot of sodium. The swelling is also in my legs, hands and face--some days being worse than other. I am even on a diuretic for it. Also, my cycles each month are HORRIBLE! I go anywhere from 7-8 days and there are days that it is so bad that I really do not even need to leave my house, afraid of having an accident. I have even had to miss some of my son's baseball and football games because of it. PMS--HORRIFIC!!!!!! My TR is scheduled for 10/04/07 and I really hope that all of these symptoms improve and then I get to have a baby! Wouldn't life be grand?! I had to put my 2 cents in. I hope all of you get relief from the TR! I know exactly what you are going through. Lisa
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Posted by leo79 (Member # 11266) on July 26, 2007 09:14 AM:
Wow this is really amzing on how many of us have had to go through this horrible experience, I wish there was something we could do to prevent others from going thorugh this. I just don't find it fair and to top it off insurance companies won't pay for the TR since they consider it an elective surgery. Sorry to keep on babbling but I am so upset that Dr's don't tell you that you could have all of these problems. To all of you dealing with these issues hang in there I am sure that once you have your TR you will be feeling as wonderful as me. I will keep you all in my prayers Leo
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Posted by cutiebabiesbyr (Member # 11190) on July 26, 2007 01:47 PM:
Thanks girls! I really hope that I have a good experiance with my TR, I feel like everyday I wake up and have a new symptom. If anyone else has had swelling and redness, please post, I would love to know that we're not the only ones going through this. Thanks.
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Posted by cutiebabiesbyr (Member # 11190) on July 26, 2007 01:57 PM:
Holden, I know what you mean, I don't eat anything with salt either, I noticed that my legs are always red, but it's REALLY bad when I get AF or when I ovulate, I can't even stand, I see the blood racing to my legs. My doctors were telling me it's because of my high blood pressure, but isn't it funny, I never ever in my life had blood pressure problems, I was always even when I carried twins at 13lbs my blood pressure was 120/70, but the second I got the TL it's been 140/90, I think that's a big enough red flag if you ask me, so my BP has been up for the last 3 months and I SO blame that on the TL too, I always feel heart palputations and notice there are other women on here that have this too, so I know that's a sign of PTLS. Guess I'm hoping and praying that swelling of the legs is part of the PTLS so I have a chance to get better after my TR, otherwise I'm lost and don't know what else could be causing this, doctors don't even know. leo79, Thanks, I'm so glad that I'm not alone with this, I hope these things get better and I really wished I was warned of these symptoms, even if they would have told me that anything could have happened or if there was a chance of there being a side effect, I would never have done this to myself.
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Posted by Holden (Member # 11265) on July 26, 2007 03:39 PM:
Hi Cutiebabiesbyr: I have a little reassuring news! I went to my GYN doctor today (to have my lab drawn for my TR surgery)and I talked to him about PTLS. He said that he was a firm believer that women DO have problems after a TL. He also told me that he has done research and that he believes that each year that passes after a TL that women's symptoms get WORSE!!? I cannot imagine it any worse. He was excited about me having the TR surgery and he said that he felt sure all of the symptoms would go away afterwards! This is hope for us girls!!! Happy! Lisa P.S. I had my TL done in 1998 (9 years ago) How many years has it been for you girl's? (My GYN said that symptoms usually really start getting even more severe after TL at about 5 years afterwards) Just wondering?
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Posted by leo79 (Member # 11266) on July 26, 2007 04:23 PM:
Hi Holden, I am truly impressed with your doctor and he is defitnetly a keeper, my gyn told me to take motrin and did not recommend the TR. I started with the symptoms two years after my TL and 5 years later I was just overwhelmed until luckily I had the surgery 3 weeks ago today and feel great.
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Posted by cutiebabiesbyr (Member # 11190) on July 26, 2007 05:10 PM:
Holden, WOW, WOW...is all I have to say, that's soooo awesome that you have a doctor like that, I agree he's definitely a keeper! I was told by my GYNO that it's in my head and I should go on anti depresents and see someone, ummmm, my hormones are out of control, my legs are swelling, my nails aren't growing and they're infected, my BP is through the roaf, no hair on body anymore, panic attacks, memory loss, throwing up when ovulating, runs, I can go on and on. I too don't know how much worse mine can get. That's awesome news that your doctor says he believes in PTLS and that a TR will help, this give me sooo much hope and I can't wait now to get it! I'm hoping and praying that out of all things that get better is my legs, BP, and my nails...I really hope these things get better, I only had my TL 3 1/2 months ago and I'm already living you know what [Frown] I hope people keep posting to let me know that I'm not the only one with leg problems.
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Posted by Holden (Member # 11265) on July 26, 2007 06:59 PM:
Leo: That is AWESOME that you feel better already--just after only 3 weeks. Hopefully it will help the rest of us...I am praying for us all!! Cutibabiesbyr...I know exactly what you mean. I started having problems right after my TL 9 years ago and it has only gotten worse. Some doctors don't even believe in PMS, much less PTLS! You and Leo are right, I agree that I have a keeper...there is only one problem...he is retiring next year. I adore him. He is one of those men/doctors that really listen to what his women patients have to say. When he told me that today I couldn't believe it. He said that he had done the research on PTLS and that some doctors try to "fix" it by giving water pills, antidepressants, vitamins,Motrin, Advil and even sending women to see a Psychiatrist...whatever!!! He said there was one way to fix it all--have a TR ASAP!!! I am glad this info helped. You know, I was beginning to think there was something REALLY wrong with me because you feel "crazy", when you know you aren't. Life is going to be better, I just know it! See ya girls, Lisa P.S. See what I mean, I can just start talking about the symptoms and I get all wound up!!! HA
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Posted by cutiebabiesbyr (Member # 11190) on July 26, 2007 08:45 PM:
Lisa, I actually love talking to you girls, it definitely makes me not feel like I'm alone, even if it's just venting. Your doctor described what about what other doctors do to try to fix it you said it perfectly and described what these doctors are doing to us women that have PTLS after a TL to a "T" I can't believe sometimes and understand how they're getting away with this, like DH said, it's only a matter of time until this blows up in their faces weither they know about it or not, too many women are complaining about it for them to keep ignoring it like this, even my GYNO admitting to hearing "of PTLS" I asked why I wasn't informed that there could be a risk to this, she just gave me a face and said "well, we don't want women thinking things" her face was almost like telling me, if they say something, then women are going to put it in there heads and will believe they have these symptoms. It's real and I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy. I know what you mean about thinking something is wrong with you after doctors tell us there's no such thing, there's no way to imagine these symptoms, when it hits, it hits like a ton of bricks, well...I think more than a ton of bricks, but that's just how bad I have it hehehe Please, please lets keep in touch, after you have your TR, please post on how everything is improving, you've given me hope that most of my symptoms will go away, now I just hope the leg swelling, BP and nails are all part of this too. ((((HUGS)))) Regina [Smile]
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Posted by pghtwins (Member # 11308) on July 26, 2007 09:31 PM:
Hi ladies, I had to chime in and let you know your not alone. I had my TL last year 5/30/06 and have not been the same since. I did not get AF for 2 months got really sick hair falling out,sick to my stomach,almost could not get out of bed. I went back to the Dr who did the TL and he said I was in menopause!! I told him no way in two months how could I be in menopause! He suggested hormones and did blood work. He called back and said sorry you are not in menopause you are hyperthyriod.My blood pressure was high so the endo DR put me on blood pressure pills and antithyroid medicine. I never had any of this before the TL. Now my thyroid is in normal range and I still feel like you know what! I have been to three gyne DR two said Hysterectomy. [Frown] No one that I have seen believes in PTLS. I scheduled my TR with Dr. Berger 08/23/07. I am praying this will help. Sorry so long, but I could go on and on! Lynn
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Posted by Holden (Member # 11265) on July 26, 2007 09:41 PM:
Regina...I will keep in touch and let you know how symptoms are after TR. I guess the really sad part with me is that since TL in 1998, I had never heard of PTLS--until I started reading everything on the CHTR website and on the message boards...then I woke up! All of the doctors that I have talked to about symptoms since 1998 said it was just PMS--take Advil...(yeah that helped...not). (That is the reason I mentioned it to my GYN doc today). My main reason to have TR is for me and my DH to have a precious little baby together but I will anxious to find out if I feel like my "good ole self again"! I'm thinking about you and I know exactly how you feel. This message board really is great!! I'll check in on ya later... Lisa**
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Posted by Holden (Member # 11265) on July 26, 2007 09:49 PM:
Lynn...just chime in anytime! I know how you feel and I can relate to your symptoms...we all can...it is the same old story over and over and over...it is ridiculous what we poor women get talked into, go through and then wind up feeling like garbage all the time...but I feel like it is going to all change for us, for the better! My TR is scheduled for 10/04/07... Good luck on your TR on 8/23/07...We will all pray that your symptoms totally disappear!! Best Wishes for you Lisa
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Posted by juliea (Member # 11218) on July 26, 2007 10:04 PM:
Do you think my blood pressure could be caused by my TL. I had my TL when I was 22, but no one told me I had high blood pressure until I was 27-28. But I HATE to go to the doctor and didn't have insurance during that time either.So I wasn't going to the doctor. So who knows maybe it is the reason. We will see after I get my surgery.
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Posted by leo79 (Member # 11266) on July 27, 2007 08:55 AM:
Welcome PGHtwins, it's nice to hear from all of those who have had all of these horrible symptoms after TL. I am sure that you all will find relief after the TR. Dr. Berger is wonderful and the nurses are just fabulous and the best part of it the procedure is very short. I will be praying for al of you and please keep us posted it will be nice to hear that we all made it to the other side and we are all feeling like new. [Love] Leo
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Posted by leo79 (Member # 11266) on July 27, 2007 08:58 AM:
Julia it probably is but I'm sure your Dr is not going to admit it is. I would just look on the brighter side and get the TR as soon as possible. Good Luck
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Posted by cutiebabiesbyr (Member # 11190) on July 27, 2007 12:13 PM:
juliea, I can almost guarantee that my blood pressure went up because of my TL, I never ever had any problems until then, ever...my BP was always 120/70, the day of the minute the surgery the surgery was over my BP was 140/90 and since then hasn't come down, I'm even on meds and it's not working for some reason...I have to actually go back to the doctors today to do something about this...I hope [Frown]
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Posted by cutiebabiesbyr (Member # 11190) on July 27, 2007 05:19 PM:
Holden, Thank you so much for keeping in touch, good luck with your surgery! I'll be praying for you!!! Well, I went today to the vascular doctor again, my BP is 150/110, this is insane [Frown] I feel it going up too when I'm about to ovulate or get my period, this is soo wrong. I have to head off now to my regular PCP and see what she wants to do, I think I have to change my BP meds. One of my legs is bigger than the other, he didn't have too much info to give me. It's not major, but it's there, anyone of you girls have swelling in one leg more than the other?
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Posted by pghtwins (Member # 11308) on July 27, 2007 06:21 PM:
Lisa... Best wishes to you too! I'm getting kind of nervous how about you? Regina... My legs and ankles swell right before AF also, I get severe pain on the lower left side!My hair has be falling out,and the PMS is terrible!! I'll let you know how I feel after the TR. Lynn
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Posted by pghtwins (Member # 11308) on July 27, 2007 06:29 PM:
Leo, You give us hope!! I'm so glad you feel [Razz] better. My mother and Aunt think I should have a hysterectomy. They keep saying what if the TR does not help?? And I keep saying what if it does!!!I just know my body and the TL messed me up. Thanks for your prayers, Lynn
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Posted by Holden (Member # 11265) on July 28, 2007 09:24 AM:
Good morning girls.... Regina: Bless your heart! You have just got to feel terrible with a BP of 150/110. I am thinking of you and you are in my prayers! I really believe now that TR will help your symptoms as well as the rest of us here. Lynn...You know it is really weird, I am not one bit nervous about my surgery on 10/4. It is strange, but I guess that I am just so ready for it!! You only have 26 days to go, right? I agree with you...I think the TL surgery messed us all up really bad. I am like you, I really believe in my heart that the TR will help you and the rest of us here...I would definitely put off a hyesterectomy as L O N G as possible! I really do wish you luck on 8/23--we are counting on you to update us with GOOD NEWS aftewards!! Talk to ya girls later, Lisa
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Posted by cutiebabiesbyr (Member # 11190) on July 28, 2007 12:27 PM:
Lisa, do you know what's REALLY weird, when I feel the hot flashes and my heart racing that's when my BP goes up, after I posted I headed off the my regular PCP and guess what, I didn't have the hot flashes and racing heart like I did in the morning when my BP what 150/110, my PCP checked it in the afternoon and it was 120/76...I sooo know this has to do with the TL, my body I feel like is jumping all over, I think I'm about to ovulate and my body is going insane again. tell me that's now weird, my PCP asked me who at the vascular doctors office took my BP because she didn't believe me, ummmm, the vascular doctors office took my BP a few times because they were nervous about it being soo high. I don't think my PCP believed me, what else is new, they don't believe anything I say anymore, even when I have proof. Even when I have proof that my BP was that high a few hours before hand, she could even call my vascular doctor and ask him herself, but of course she wont...she just think I'm nuts as usual LOL I've been going to her for over 12 years and never ever had problems with my BP, if she puts the picture together like I am and realize that as soon as I had my TL 3 months ago the moment after that's when my BP has been insane since, she knows from all my records back that I've never had a problem, I should never have said TL, all she keeps telling me is that she's concerned that I'm depressed and needs to see someone, and need to go on anti depresents (heard that 100x), I told her that I'm not depressed, I'm trying to figure out why soo many things bad are happening to me after my TL and don't want to see anyone. Lynn , My legs swell and get really red around AF and ovulation, I can't even stand for 1 minute, I feel like it's not far to my kids That's why I'm hoping this TR will help atleast that and my BP and nails again, not that worried about my nails, but they say nails tell A LOT about what's going on with a persons body, ya know. My legs still get red inbetween AF and ovulation, but I can atleast stand a little long without them getting as red, still red and swell, but now as fast. You definitely have to let me know how you feel after your TR too. I keep hearing the same thing that what if the TR doesn't do anything, I keep telling everyone that I definitely can't live like this, I have to take the chance. And what if it does help me, then I'll have my life back and I wont have this high blood pressure so I'll be able to live to see my kids grow up, this is actually becoming dangerous if you ask me.
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Posted by Blessings (Member # 9736) on July 28, 2007 05:15 PM:
Ladies, I wish you all the best on your upcoming TR's. Any of you that are having them due to PTLS symptoms....trust me you will be so happy that you had the TR. I am a new person back to my pre- TL self and there is so much truth to the fact that having the TL messes with your whole body in ways that really do seem crazy but, rest assure you are NOT !!!!! Blessings, Christie TR 3/13/06 [Big Grin]
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Posted by Holden (Member # 11265) on July 29, 2007 12:33 AM:
Hi Girls... Regina: Again, bless your little heart! I think it is like Christie says...TL messues with your whole body. My wonderful GYN doc said that TL isn't really "what nature intends for us to do" (it's kind of interrupting things and it is worse the younger you are when you have it done). I agree. Talking again about leg swelling, my feet, legs and ankles swell any time of the month--some days worse than others. I work at home doing medical transcription and with sitting at the computer all day they swell and when I stand up my legs feel H E A V Y...Gross! Regina, you need TR ASAP!! Christie...You are a breath of fresh air and give us all hope. I'm ready to get back to my old self (if I remember who I was) and to hopefully have a little one with my DH!!! I'm so glad the TR helped you! Well that is my 2 cents for today.... Talk later Lisa TR--10/04/07!!!
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Posted by cutiebabiesbyr (Member # 11190) on July 29, 2007 11:37 AM:
Lisa, Awwwww, thanks for blessing me [Smile] I definitely need to get a TR ASAP, I don't think I can get if fast enough. I have a question, are we allowed to email each other? I wasn't sure, didn't think we could post each other's emails, but I did see some girls emails on here, don't wanna get in trouble, but would LOVE to keep in touch, I feel like I have another family here and it gives me so much hope and support. How are you feeling today? My legs are swelling as usual, it's hard to not be able to stand, it's amazing how much happens with a TL, I never would have thought this much stuff can happen. I'm trying sooooo hard to think positive and think that this TR will help me, it's hard especially when doctors don't even believe in it, let alone admitting that a TR will help, but just knowing how many girls are getting back to the way they were, give me hope, I LOVE hearing how their symptoms improved, ya know?
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Posted by cutiebabiesbyr (Member # 11190) on July 29, 2007 11:39 AM:
Christie, thank you SO much for posting, I agree with Lisa, your are definitely a breath of fresh air, and we need that SO much. You give us all hope and I love hearing your stories on how good you girls are feeling after a TR [Smile]
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Posted by cutiebabiesbyr (Member # 11190) on July 29, 2007 09:11 PM:
pghtwins, it's weird how we all have pretty much a lot of the same symptoms, the leg swelling is a pain, that's for sure, I sometimes wonder why this happens, I can't wait to hear how everyone does after ther TR [Big Grin] [Love]
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Posted by leo79 (Member # 11266) on July 30, 2007 11:01 AM:
cutiebabiesbyr, I am glad that you BP went down but you should still take care of your self. I defitnetly think you should consider getting the TR as soon as possible, I don't think that getting a hysterectomy is the way to go at this point, that should always be your very last option. Please keep us posted on your condition, I will keep you in my prayers. Leo TR 7/05/07
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Posted by cutiebabiesbyr (Member # 11190) on July 30, 2007 04:11 PM:
Leo, Thank you soo much for thinking of me, I was talking to DH, I'm definitely gonna get the TR ASAP. I don't want to get a hysterectomy if the TR will help me avoid this, ya know How are your symptoms as of today? What's improved since your TR? You must be on cloud nine [Love] [Big Grin]
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Posted by leo79 (Member # 11266) on July 30, 2007 04:52 PM:
I feel great, all of my pains are gone my only other worry is I ended up getting polycistic ovaries from the TL so I will be going to the DR in a little while to get treated for that, Yes I know one more ting to deal with because of that TL. I will keep you posted. I am glad you are getting the TR done soon Leo